If it's hard your ...
Good day to you. Getting back to basics. Right now, things seem a bit rough, and one of the best pieces of advice keeps repeating itself. "If it is hard you are probably doing it wrong". Armed with that insight, today I will take a step back and look at the way things are getting done; it could be that something very basic is tripping me up. What thought or action is silly, stupid and counter productive? Find the missteps that I can fix, without causing the house of cards I call my life to fall apart. I prefer to look for what is going right and keep doing that, but that is so much harder than finding what's wrong. It is my opinion that what you focus on has an impact on the way things play out, that's why I usually try not to look on the negative side of life, that focus seems to amplify the problems. Is there a difference between focusing on one thing and denial of the rest? I really don't know.